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"As children we are scared of the dark, as adults we must marinate in it."
As a coach for such a lengthy period of time, I often get asked what is the main problem with modern man and their biggest pain.
It’s a great question and the answer is often...
Part 2 - The Full Confrontation With Oneself
We are often taught to turn the other cheek when slapped even though this may not be the right course of action.
Schools now reprimand children for fighting back against the school bullies.
Our entire culture is one that praises...
The Warrior Seeks To Accept Himself, Not Please Others
From childhood onwards we are taught that the highest achievement is the approval of others.
We are taught what I refer to as the unwritten barter charter, in order to succeed in the world and fit neatly within it, we must behave a...
This week we ramp up the coverage for Unlimited Courage throughout the uk and beyond.
We have already been turned down, as our critique of men sharing their feelings as the wonder antidote to male angst, is as expected, running into resistance.
Yes our message is different, an opposite stance to...
One of the common comments many young guys tell me when they get in touch is that they don’t have any goals.
They often tell me they feel their life is meaningless, amiss and at times, they can’t even identify what is wrong.
Yet the truth is they do have goals and like any...
It’s interesting to observe society and see how it creates its own problems and then complain of these issues as though we all had nothing to with them.
Unfortunate events and societal issues, are looked upon as all random manifestations, separate from our own behaviour.
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One of the largest groups of interest in Unlimited Courage at the moment, is coming from the christian church.
They often want me to join their church, to join their congregation because clearly they see something in Unlimited Courage, a different offering, that the church...
A Thank You
Since appearing on GB News at the weekend the response has been amazing. The emails I have received and personal stories, as well as the overall interest in Unlimited Courage is just fantastic.
I thank everyone who has messaged and signed up as a result of the...
One of the most important things we can do is identify the space between where we want to be and where we are now.
This space is where the work is and will likely include unseen obstacles, difficulties and adjustments not just for the man but for those around him.
I’ve always advised my...
Tennis champion Andre Agassi was programming himself through affirmations at 3-4 years old. Multi gold Olympic medalist Chris Hoy has said the most important thing he ever learnt was regularly imagining himself winning ahead of time.
Having been involved in martial arts for decades and...
Having coached so many young lads who attend private schools, it never ceases to amaze me just how much unhealthy junk food these schools serve up for them to consume on a daily basis.
So much for paying for an upper level of education, when the foundation of our thinking, behaviour, emotions...
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Over the last few weeks, my daughter and my eldest son have started to ask more questions about my background.
They are curious to find out more about where I came from and the incidences of the past.
“Where is my biological Father?”
“What happened when I was...
