I just watched Louis Theroux's "Inside The Manosphere" documentary on Netflix.
As someone who's spent 30+ years teaching character development to men and boys, I was disturbed - but not surprised.
Here's what the documentary reveals about the crisis facing young men - and what they actually need i...
Most men are living their lives on a rollercoaster of "feeling like it."
One day, you wake up at 5:00 AM, hit the gym, crush your tasks at the office, and come home feeling like a king. You’re motivated. You’re "on." But then, Tuesday hits. You stayed up late, the rain is hitting the window, and ...
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Nutrition is always a subject that has many different points of view and people focus on their own food intake for many different reasons.Â
Gandhi recognised the mastery of palate as the most important factor in opposing the British Empire. He considered it the heart...
 This week, as war extends across the world and the media control the narrative on bad guys and good guys, we realise despite the changes in technology, we remain in internal conflict.Â
As Krishnamurti once said:
“There is really only one war, the war within ourselves, which produces all external...
The more man attempts to turn away from the warrior within, the more he suffers. One of the reasons men are suffering is because they have abandoned the warrior archetype but in doing so they are rejecting part of who they really are.Â
Society has encouraged and supported this self-rejection and pr...
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Online influencer Andrew Tate is no stranger to controversy and there is a firm objective coming up to dissuade young men from following him online. Rather than shut the conversation down on why young men lean in to the teachings of Andrew Tate, we should hear what they have to say, so as t ... |
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Many older guys struggle with their health.
Just recently, I have had men in their 40s and 50s contact me with potentially serious health conditions.Â
It often seemingly comes out of nowhere, no buildup, no major warning but of course there were warnings but the pace...
Resentment is something that comes up a lot in my coaching clients.Â
It’s often seen as a right, a justification and often I understand why there is so much resentment in a man because of what he has experienced but ultimately, it is self defeating and keeps one bound to the focus of their resentme...
About 10 years ago, I released my first audio CD called Free The Mind.Â
Prior to this I had organised an introductory talk and introduced the main theme of Free The Mind that we are already everything we need.Â
This can be a difficult idea for many to accept as we are raised to believe we are not ...
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The greatest enemy of man is fear.Â
Any man that doesn’t know who he really is must live in fear and guilt all his life.Â
Many conversations have been had about fear but these are normally just overcoming it in one area of life so as to receive a recognisable achieve...
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Many of the men I’ve coached use discipline without realising it, in a way that the focus of their discipline becomes more important than them.Â
I was saying to a client last week that one of the first and prolonged injustices children are taught is that they have n...
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I’ve never known men to be so uncertain of who they are, how they are supposed to act and where they fit into the world.Â
As a result, many men have just decided to fit in to anything that doesn’t demand risk and the confrontation of the societal lies of our times. ...
